5 May 07, 21:21
benji: i wanted to ask you to send me your free will essay, and poof here it is...21 Mar 07, 23:27
joyce: i'm bored and i'm here again. so.. just to say hi. "HI"8 Mar 07, 21:43
rosel: benji, i wldnt even have known u tagged if not for the super bored joyce who saw this.24 Feb 07, 22:50
benji: ok, after so much... it's just benji-talk.. haha... nothing really official and it's all from me and me only... but i'd like to hear your side of the argument 
24 Feb 07, 22:49
benji: that you just have to continue... and because u have subconsiously trusted that person so much, your mind thinks that the other party is "trust-able" so you end up "trusting" him or her...24 Feb 07, 22:49
benji: more and more entangled, more and more intertwined with each other... and then how do you trust someone? instincts i guess... when you realise that you have subconsciously told him or her sooooo much24 Feb 07, 22:48
benji: just like we won't go to someone at IMH and start telling him or her anything... it takes time, and both parties have to "click" together in order for that first degree trust to occur... then it gets24 Feb 07, 22:47
benji: so in a sense, trust is a viscious cycle... but at the very foundations of it, we're looking at one thing: character of that person... if he or she is suitable for us, we tend to trust him or her more24 Feb 07, 22:46
benji: continue telling so as not to let the stuff that have already been told be leaked out due to a sudden plunge in a relationship condition should conversations not carry on...24 Feb 07, 22:45
benji: but i guess trust is built over time... when you gradually tell the person more and more things that you end up realising that you have told him or her too much that you have no choice but to24 Feb 07, 22:45
benji: the human reflex action i guess... we're born with it, but we don't know what exactly is it... ok, reflex actions may not be too aptly put... but it's around there... we're born with it...24 Feb 07, 22:44
benji: wow... u kinda updated it... hmmmm.... trust... i don't think there is an exact Oxford or Cambridge Dictionary defination to it... but rather more of an emotional defination... something like15 Nov 06, 00:34
cAi: so as to say,im not 1 to be scared when some1 points a gun at me...i onli scared when some1 points a gun at others tat r worthy to live on15 Nov 06, 00:33
cAi: to counter poison wif poison,wouldn it be nice?and swear words,no point...the glooorious language of english can juz make them eat the cake they make14 Nov 06, 18:40
rosel: [bx] elegant your head la. its damn crude.14 Nov 06, 18:15
bx: simple yet meaningful..14 Nov 06, 17:52
bx: mmm hokkien has elegant-er swear words...14 Nov 06, 17:49
dough: EH. if an angmoh verbal gangs you and you use chinese back ur in big trouble BIG trouble.. cos the french and italian have HUGE expansive swear words.. they are afterall th inventers of F**k. so yeah.14 Nov 06, 08:25
bx: i dont give up, im just too lazy to argue. and its 'extenSion' btw...14 Nov 06, 08:24
bx: lim peh ka li kong, li nang si wang sek nang, mana eh sai beh hio kong wang sek nang way.. wa kun pun mai kong si nang ang mor way